Valentines approaching and everybody is asking everybody these questions:
- who you are going out with?
- where you are going to bring thet person to?
- what is your present?
This makes me think about what love really is? and the purpose of finding a lifetime partner.
For me, i feel that there is no such need! If you are talking about partnership and connections, you can always find your friends, i think everybody will have at least 1 true friend to turn to... and sometimes, your true friends are even closer to you compare to your partner..!
If it's only to live together till old, start a family, have sex, have children, then i feel it's redundant and is added the element of lust.
The qualities of love is that you care for the other person unconditionally, never expect anything in return...
Or perhaps it's our animal instinct that guide us to seek for a sex partner, to continue our species legacy; dates and marriage is just social ethics to get the hunt.
Just bits of my thoughts. pls don't mind my blabberings...
Anyway, Happy Valentine's Day to all!
3 comments:
yo.. dont forget tat Valentine Day is also called Friendship Day..
Yes! that again strengthten my point that actually getting a so call lover cum partner cum spouse isn't really necessary, isn't it?
dont u never fall in someone in your life?! may be there's someone fall in but you dunno.of course not me but i wont tell you who is she bcoz i hav2 keep my promise. she is having tis uncontrolable feeling since 3 years ago.but she wont tell you bcoz......actually im quite sympathize about her coz she fall in someone who can survive without love...
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